Made by ADHDers, for ADHDers
The dating app designed for ADHD brains.
No texting. No small talk. You pick from bowling, crazy golf, ping pong and more. We book it, plus a drink. You just turn up.
Launching in London · January 2027
Sound familiar?
Texting for weeks before you meet
Getting ghosted mid-conversation
Hours of swiping, barely a match
Apps draining every bit of energy
Here, a match isn't the start of another chat. It's a real date, booked for you.
| Most dating apps | SideQuest |
|---|---|
| Weeks of messages before you meet | A real date, booked for you |
| You plan the where and when | We pick a good bar and a time |
| Pay monthly whether you meet anyone or not | £11.99 per date, only when you go |
| Small talk over text | Something fun to do, in person |
| Subscriptions earn while you swipe | We only earn when you go on a date |
Find your people
Sound like you? Good. That's exactly who this is for.
Chatty?
Brilliant. Nobody here wants one-word answers.
Full of energy?
Bring it. A bowling lane can handle it.
Get bored fast?
Every date has something fun to do, so it never goes flat.
Told you're “too much”?
Not here. Here, you're just you.
Say yes first, plan later?
Same. You match, we sort the plan.
All in when you like someone?
No playing it cool needed.
How it works
Match
Like someone, they like you back. That's the whole first step.
Pick your free nights
You both tap the evenings you're free. No back-and-forth messages.
Show up and play
You pick the game, we book the place and the time. You just turn up.
Sound good? Pre-sign up
The dates
Activity bars across London. About an hour: the game first, then a drink if it's going well. No spark? Head off after the game.
Bowling
Crazy golf
Ping pong
Shuffleboard
£11.99
Game and drink included.
No monthly fee.
We only get paid when you go on a date. So we want you off your phone and out the door.
Built around how ADHD brains actually work
Done with swiping?
For anyone done with endless swiping and dates that go nowhere. Here, a match turns into an actual date.
Dates booked for you
No planning, no decisions about where or when. We sort it.
Profile help built in
Not sure which photos work? We help you pick your best ones and write prompts that show who you are.
Reminders so you're not late
We tell you when to leave, not just when the date starts.
Our promises
Real, checked profiles
Everyone takes a quick selfie to prove they look like their photos, before any first date.
Bars we've checked ourselves
Busy bars with staff, never someone's flat. You see where before you pay.
No-show? Full refund
If your match cancels or doesn't turn up, your £11.99 comes back automatically. People who don't turn up get paused.
Chat opens 2 hours before
Just enough to say “running late” or “I'm by the bar”.
“I have ADHD, and dating apps never worked for me, so I built the one I wanted.”
Pre-sign up now
Launching in London · January 2027. First dates go to the list first.
Questions
When does it launch?
January 2027, in London. Everyone who pre-signs up gets access first.
What does £11.99 get me?
A game and a drink, per person, per date. No monthly fee, and matching is free.
Do I need to be ADHD to join?
No. It's built for ADHD brains and open to everyone who'd rather skip the small talk.
So how do we actually meet?
You match like any app. Then, instead of chatting, you both pick what you fancy and when you're free, and we book it.
Can I pick the day?
Yes. You both tap the evenings you're free, and we book one that works for you both.
What if I'm running late?
Tell them in the chat, which opens 2 hours before. We also remind you when to leave, not just when the date starts.
What if we don't click?
No pressure. The date is about an hour. Finish the game, say thanks and head home. You don't have to stay for the drink.
Who pays for extra drinks?
Your £11.99 covers the game and one drink. Anything after that, you buy at the bar as normal.
Which areas of London?
We'll start where most people on the list live, so tell us your area when you sign up.
What happens to my answers?
They help us choose bars and plan launch. We never sell them, and your ADHD answer is stored separately and never used for ads. Details in our privacy policy.